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i have a profile on swing2us which i use from time to time but have generally found shed loads of time wasters on there...anyway....
trying to organise my next swingers party and put it on my S2U profile and have since had my profile disabled for mailer abuse!!
what a croc of horse shit!!
on AfterDark ive been able to post my party and add my phone number AND personal email address without any restrictions what so ever!!
hence proving this is a much better site than Swing2Us...
anybody else experienced these kind of probs on other sites?
be great to hear everyones views.
Rach xx
yeah and the make you pay through the nose as well!
I thought it was ok, but then the only message I really got there was from XDenise, and if I hadn't, I would never have ended up here, so I like it for that alone cheer66
Swing2us is the same as Swinging Heaven, both run by big companies and they restrict what you can and cant do, will not allow you to put your email address or contact details on anything.
Thats why its great on this site coz you can put anything you want on your profile and posts
Mel xxx
another Wank one is melanies Place thay even send you mail surpost to be from other members wanting you to reply which you can only do if you are a paid up member but if you read the small print thay say thay will send mail that thay think you would want to recive and of corse if you do pay up and reply guess what nothing happens
after reading everones posts ive most deffinatly decided to stick with ad
its a fantastic site and your all as cool as hell specialy me mate doug!:)
cheer66 cheer66 cheer66
Mmmm, have got to say after dark ROCKS !!!
love jane xxx
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i used to use swinging heaven years ago and to be honest they were pretty crap even then, lots of juicy ads, but i never ever received a single reply and i spent ages individually writing emails, and sending photos, when my mate advertised his gang bang parties he had millions of replies and i think all of them were timewasters .... that is not the case on this site, ive met the ppl who run it (well some of them) and they are genuine ppl and ive had lots of fun with some of them ;+)Xrated
Well it has to be said, from all of the above this is just more proof that AD is clearly better!! Lets keep it that way!!! Yeehhaaa!!!
Its also proof that a site can be amazing but if it doesn't have any decent participating members it can quickly become all about pretty banners rather than the important stuff. Lets keep chatting and getting involved!
Love and kisses
Webcam007
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yeah well spoken webby, the people posting and meeting up are what makes this site special (and i should know, ive been on plenty of others ;+) Xrated
i agree i admit im new to the scene and have only really used this site but i have to say its the dogs dangalys the people on here make it what it is and i think everyone makes it the success it is
Not all other sites are bad though!
Nobody is suggesting that they are, this site is perhaps one of the smaller ones, and because of that it allows it to be so much more personal, you get out what you put in so to speak. It actively encourages participation, doesn't charge any extra for the sending and recieving of messages, one fee allows you total access. It also caters to all different types, I myself whilst sexually adventurous really get off on exhibitionism, showing myself off to all, yes that rocks my boat, but I also get up to a lot of things that I don't post about, this site and the members accept that, hopefully when I post new pictures it is interesting for the other members. I know there are other sites that I can post on but I am happy here, I like the intimacy of the site and the fact that I can mail the members and occasionally send them exclusive pictures. I am here and here to stay, well as long as the site wants me to, if you want to give it a try unregistered then it will cost you less than a pound a week, not even half a pint of beer for a week now that is a REAL BARGAIN. A x
Qiute right Rach! We are on swinging heaven and have had several no shows also there not nearly as friendly. Weve decided to give them a rest and stick with AD! Also there chat room is very cliquey
hello22
we had a post on swhvn but they were so clicky in the chat rooms that we both felt awkward .. soap1
so they can kiss our asskiss
have been on AD cheer66 & not looked back wow1
people we have met, have all been friendly & we always enjoy ourselves
whenever we meet up .
so 23_30_104 AD & 0blowme swhvn
uggly70090
i have to agree yet again, i had an account on swinging heaven and swing2us but they are so strict, couldnt be coping with that at all
AfterDark is relaxed, freidnly, and full of genuine horny and lovely people.
doesnt get any better that this if u ask me!
Sue xx
We have a profile on SH, the only way we get noticed is by creating our own room in the chat zone!!! We have had repeated Winks which are sooooo boring, they just say "we like your profile tak a look at mine" no conversation!!!
So we find AD fab for posts and forum threads!!!!!!!
Big up the AD!!!!
TTFN
Jo & Nick xxxx
Totally agree. By the way Jo love your profile, have you checked ours.
Lee and Jo
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We are both new to this site and like what we see. Why other sites ban folk for the silliest of things is beyond me,as folk make up their own minds as to what sites they want to visit/join. Its refreshing to find a site where I can advertise my website and planned events.
Its very dis-heartening when you put events on and few folk attend. We are holding our 1st house party tonight, and have been advertising it on SH. Couples said they wanted to attend, but have hit us with excuses why they won't be coming. Other couples have lied and said they are working, but their names are down for the Cov meet. What is wrong with honesty? Just say you are already booked.
Anyway, rant over lol. If any couples/single fems are interested in our party it would be nice to hear from you.
We have 8 couples including ourselves coming, plus 7 single guys and 1 single fem. Nibble will be provided, folk to bring their own drink. Its in Birmingham B10
Rosie & Keith xxxx
Good luck with the party tonight, you ought to find that people on this site are very honest - sometimes frighteningly so LOL.
Our membership of SH ran out some time ago - and I don't think we actually met anyone through it.... Our membership of "The Adult Hub" ran out yesterday and that was worth the money - 'cause that's the profile Rachel used to send us a mail about AD and we haven't looked back since LMAO
I WAS ON THAT ADULTHUB THING ASWELL. TOTAL SHIT REALLY.
whhoopss just wrote that all in capitals, i must have been angry :)
After Dark sure is the best site on the internet for dogging and swinging
its full of genuine real non clicky members unlike swinging heaven who are full or time wasters and little clicky groups
you are able to post and say anything you want here and the support team should you have a problem are there on hand pretty much 24/7
AfterDark all the way for us love2
another Wank one is melanies Place thay even send you mail surpost to be from other members wanting you to reply which you can only do if you are a paid up member but if you read the small print thay say thay will send mail that thay think you would want to recive and of corse if you do pay up and reply guess what nothing happens
I dislike Melanies. I joined a couple of times and both times I was banned for apparantly spamming...............What I actually did was tell a few guys via private message about my website link. I was also banned for trying to poach guys from "their" site to make movies.
Everything I discussed with their male members was through "Private" pm's however, it would seem that even private messages are being read. Melanie strongly denies this.
I did argue that they do not own their members and that what myself and a member/s chose to do was none of their business.
Another annoying thing about Melanies is that when you log on, you automatically get sent to their movies page in the hope you will sign to see what I would call "Pretty people" fucking. Melanies, I feel is very clicky and all her movies feature her friends rather than any other couples who would be happy to fuck on cam.
Oh and don't get me started on all her " Suck ups" the site is riddled with them. I told Mel in a private email that her time would be better spent attending to her two young children instead of spending her time attempting to be a porn movie producer as her movies are the same old boring stuff that punters buy in sex shops..............Mel put a notice on the forums saying I had called her a bad mother................Hmmmn not so, her incorrect interpretation based on perhaps the guilt of her own feelings or an attempt to have all her "suck ups" jump to defend her and they did. Such sad sad people.
I have my own mind and intend to keep it as long as is possible. You can be admiring of someone but too much praise is quite sickening for other folk to read.
I didn't realise folk need to pay on there though? I thought it was a totally free site as far as messaging goes!
after dark is the best site i've used so far and i've used a few. had enough of paying to speak to time wasters. x james x
We joined swingingheaven when it first started so we are full members that dont have to pay.We have had lots of meets through that site both fun and social meets.I think its the same on all sites the more you put in the more you get out of it.We are very new here so we cant compare the two sites but if we have half as much fun here as we have had on the other site we will be more than happy.:)
We're on SH, it was the first site we joined, and though I do see others points as the Admin are retentive to a degree and they're always f*cking about with how the site looks etc. However we've had great success on it as in all cases what you put in is what you get out. I guess we've been lucky as we've found the place OK
We've been to swinging socials of upward of 200 people regularly and had one or five quite amazing after social hotel parties that have almost killed us. Its a big site with a lot of members in it although the advertised membership of 1.2 million is bollox - maybe a 5th of that if lucky and active probably a 10th if that a
We're lucky in the respect that we're a couple with a bi-fem which attracts a lot of attention as do single fems As a single guy the site is nearly impossible for most to get meets and ends up as just a pay site for crap live cam porn for them
We like AD we like the people we've met and the people we've met and shagged too. A really genuine sex orientated site that works . And as for the people who run it... they don't come much better and a big thank you from us :)
I admire and enjoy AD for being a ballsy site catering for upfront people and giving the opportunity to say and show what ppl want with regard to email/site addys etc (Though I would love to know how to delete pics so we can replace them with newer ones LoL)Whereas SH only allows these through the PM system and is very restrictive in its forums. A lot of the business really comes from the cam/chat facility which is all very well when theres 1000-2000 ppl using them.
Well Damn !! I just had to put the google search to the test and low N behold you DID come up as No1 Rach gossip00
Next time I want to use the words "cum slut" I shall substitute them with "Rachel" :P
I have to ask, did you and the 14 from AD have fun, silly question I know :)
Bill.
We have always loved the fact that if you google "amateurs soup" you don't get homemade food recipes lol
Oh and we do like the forums on this site, although we have had most of meetings from another of the swinging sites which hasn't been mentioned. That's probably because we are more into one to one's than dogging, but we enjoy the chat and we also enjoyed the socials we have attended.
its great to see that After Dark is still one of THE best sites on the net!!!
44_109
i love after dark i too am on the mentioned sites but have had more cock from afterdark then any other site
deffo the site to be involved in
Amanda x
huge ditto agree with everything
i have much more fun on After Dark!
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